I have talked to a few guys and it always seems to boil down to fear or something as I am starting to think that people online are really only looking for shallow stuff, that or they are looking for their soul mate.... I am just looking for someone to hang out with and see if things will progress in 1 of 4 ways

1 RUN AWAY!!!!!
2 You have a laugh but there's no spark or nowt
3 They like you more than you like them
4 You like them more then they like you

In my opinion this should be as complicated as it gets or is the world more complicated at 37 then it was at 19? I certainly haven't gotten any more complicated ha :)

Hope people are reading this... feel free to comment, heckle... try and be a little easy on the character assignation ha just let me know if anyone is there

IS ANYBODY OUT THERE??

signing off til next time mwah

It's easter weekend and after promising myself no alarms I still managed to wake up early... I have been looking forward to this 4 day weekend for ages and in doing that I actually forgot to plan anything!! so I am hoping that the weatherman was wrong about the weather and it's glorious or someone will give me inspiration or there may be boredom ahead!

I have been perusing the profiles on a well known free dating website I like to call plenty of fuckers... why does everyone like 'a good night on the sofa with a bottle of wine' are there more secret alky's then people realise or are people that lazy? sounds like hell to me, equally puzzling are the amount of guys with topless shots.... yes guys we all know you have chests but why are you insisting on bearing them to us? some input would be nice

It all used to be a lot simpler... you like someone.. you go out with them... now everyone seems to want "fun" which I think means casual sex.... I am starting to think I look like the kinda girl who likes to hook up with random guys from the internet and shag them.... I'm really not into that so I think I have to change my perfume or something ha

Helllo and welcome to my first blog

I like talking about random things and for some reason I feel I need to get these thoughts out of my head

I have been single just over a year now, what with work, trying to get proper fit for summer, my near 16 year old son and catching up with my mates I have very little time to meet people and I am hugely fussy it seems, with this in mind I joined a dating site.... it happens to a lot of people in  this day and age so stop looking at me like that.... seriously?? ha :)